I realise through my candid discussions with newlover how sad it can be to be confronted with someone else’s ‘new paradigm‘ perspective on romantic relationships, like the one I have. The sadness of what he was saying really hit me the other day when we were talking and I wondered if what I say and the beliefs I explore affect people around me who I … Continue reading My relationship world view; negative or pragmatic?
Its best to leave your dating profile blurb pretty sparse in my opinion. The fact is people see your pictures and project a fantasy of you onto you which may or may not exist in reality. And why not let them? People hang onto these projected fantasies long after any relationship has begun, until such a point as reality hits in maybe a few months or even … Continue reading Dating profiles – less is more
I don’t know how to start this really. Not even sure I want to post about it – it’s so sad. Still, it’s so present, so important, and such an extreme example of where exercising the freedom that is so crucial to my survival now (see: Kids & Joy & Selfish Me) is at odds with the other things happening in my life. Very sadly, my … Continue reading Dilemma
I have a dilemma. Having moved back to my home city, but having kept a job in the city I lived in with my ex, I work remotely but will be travelling back there a couple of times a month. When I left, in the end, the main thing that broke my heart (or maybe the main thing I haven’t yet worked out how to … Continue reading Advice please; should I see my cats?